#lmao i just had a pro ana blog follow me

[batsarebetterthanpeople]

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[verycoolipromise]

hi, i’m sorry if you were following me and i just dipped lmao (not that i have like. masses of fans or anything).. i won’t go into the details but basically my ED popped out and i unfortunately found myself on ana tumblr.. i’m not recovered but i’m in a stable place in my recovery now (i think it’s been about 3 months since i started?), but for awhile i couldn’t even look at tumblr without being triggered cause of the blogs they’d recommend n everything. anyways.. if you have an ana blog on here, listen up:

DELETE IT. DELETE IT DELETE IT DELETE IT. i don’t give a shit if you’re “not pro ana for anyone else 🥺”, you are still fucking harming people and there is no excuse for it. i also wanna say: you can recover. i know, so many people have said that, and you won’t believe me or listen to me. i get it. but just so you know? you can. i don’t care how long you’ve had your ED for, or what weight you’re at, or whether or not you have a therapist/professional help. you. can. get. better. but ONLY you can. make that choice. please. i love you.

when i started recovery, i followed some people on instagram who were (and still are) extremely helpful to me. they talk about intuitive eating, health at every size, the social activism intertwined with recovery, etc.. here they are:

talyngracee

sweetpotat.hoeee

beautiful.appetite

wakasrecovery

nutellawithaspoon (NOTE: she recently had a relapse and is currently in treatment. she would never post any triggering details or information, but if it would be triggering to follow someone in that stage, please don’t!!)

mkmakesmoves

han_beats_an

living.as.lauren

simplysadielyn

journeyofmaria.98

_positive_peach (NOTE: she was kinda in quasi recovery for awhile, and then had a full blown relapse, and is just now starting full recovery. i also know her personally so ig i’m biased, but you should still give ‘er a follow if it wouldn’t be triggering to follow someone in that stage!!)

whew! this became a lot more of a recovery-focused post than i intended it to be.. anyways. bye?

i’m adding pro ana tags because i want this post to get into that world. please don’t look if it’ll be triggering (it certaintly will be for me!!)

[never-not-ever]

Idk how much of this blogs past you want to dredge up/reveal, so I’ll just say I’ve been following you since before you became a recovery blog. I know you’re going through a rough time, and I wanted to tell you that you’re such an inspiration to me and I wish I had the strength to get help like you did. Anyway you’re so beautiful and brave and I know you’re going to beat those voices in your head telling you otherwise ❤️❤️

So you were one of the oringials lmao 😂 hi!!! So yea all blogs have an archive so you’re not dredging up any past. But I remember when I originally made this blog almost a year ago now and I was in a very bad place and unfortunately it was a pro-Ana blog. I don’t have nor have I ever had an eating disorder but back then I wanted to lose weight in a very disordered way. I sound like a hypocrite but I swear I don’t have one. Anyways I deleted all the pictures but kept a lot of the asks and text posts so if people did want to go back they could always look at my archive. But yea it became a recovery blog and now here we are again. Thank you so much for being there from the start and not leaving when it became recovery and then relapse. It does mean a lot to me☺️☺️☺️ and thank you for your kind words 😘

[positivityjediprince]

@sweetdjarin omg you are the sweetest!! In name and nature! 🥺 I always look forward to seeing all the things you create 😍 xx

Favourite Colour: YELLOW!!! 🏵💛🌻🌼🌞 Very cliché I know but it makes me think of nature and the sun which makes me happy.

URL meaning: (TW - Anorexia) I originally had a different tumblr but I developed anorexia and for several years I followed a lot of thin*spo/pro*ana blogs. Then I ended up so bad I was having some version of a heart attack and was hospitalised and almost died (lmao the Dr came in the next day and said 'good to see you're still with us'). I didn't want to leave tumblr but I know I would just relapse/be triggered so I made a new account. I choose PositivityPrincess because it felt like a cute and joyful name which I really wanted to like help me feel like I was in a new and better chapter of life. (Coincidentally my boyfriend -who I met less than a year later and is the most wonderful guy and i feel so blessed- used to call me Principessa the Italian for princess which made me feel very cute!)

Its now PositivityPRINCE because I'm trans and tho I use they/them mostly I do use mainly male terms (ie boyfriend/prince/boy etc) and I wanted to reflect that.

If you want to do it I'm tagging @mando-punk because he seems to be my clone (or I'm yours!) And I love love reading his tags!

And the other person I want to tag is @melodramatic-ass because they motivated me to write my fanfic (which will be updated soon I just had to completely rewrite!) And left the sweetest comment AND sent me photos of Mark Hamill in a cowboy hat which omg were so perfect!!

TAG GAME; ORIGINAL HERE.

Tagged by: @redminibike1 Tagging: @bhavvyyy @frankensteined @nurselaney @rochc93 @ewanmcgregorismyhomeboy12 Rules: Put down the meaning/origin of your url, your favorite color, and tag at least 5 people who put something on your dash that made you smile. Not just followers or mutuals, anybody that posted something that ended up on your dash. I’ll start.

URL origin: It’s from the song Mukhtasar from the movie Teri Meri Kahaani. These exact lyrics ‘ankahi koi baat’ means ‘something unsaid’. Favourite colour: Purple! Any shade, but especially the darker ones.

[shes-my-colllar]

the whole byf masterpost

sorry this isnt on my main blog, i wanted to keep this separate from the posts on my main blog lmao

ABOUT ME

hello. i’m Kodi. you can also call me Minty. either one works, but i prefer Kodi.

here’s what i look like. in case that was a concern you had.

i’m 14, nonbinary (they/them or he/him preferred, but anything works tbh), a freshman in high school, and live in Colorado. no, I won’t sell you pot. thanks for asking.

im asexual and panromantic. if you look like lars im probably already attracted to you.

i’m incredibly vulgar, in case you already couldn’t tell. c:

also in case you couldn’t tell, i mostly reblog mcr and frank iero n stuff. i’ll also reblog memes and shitposts and whatever. but it is mostly mcr and fiatp and stuff like that. anything that’s not mcr is most likely tagged.

speaking of stuff i usually post, things will get bloody on here. i will fairly often reblog pictures of blood. 99% of the time i tag it, tho. if you want to follow me but have a blood trigger, blacklist the ‘blood tw /’ tag.

i have depression, ADHD (professionally diagnosed), anxiety disorder, and DPDR (self-diagnosed)

i do art things sometimes. and music things, but theyre not public. maybe when i work up enough courage i’ll post something related to my music stuff.

i’m a Satanist, a member of the Satanic Temple. (i have a membership card man dont fuck with me)

i’m an anarchist, too.

i’m fluent in sarcasm and talking shit. partially fluent in spanish.

i play bass, ukulele, melodica, and violin (and a little piano too but i’m not good at it)

if you see me reblog something that contains a trigger of yours, please do not hesitate to send me an ask and tell me!! you can send it on anon and tell me to tag it. (tho i prefer off anon, so i can answer you privately [and take you seriously. remember that one anon that asked me to tag bob? i thought it was just someone who actually liked bob asking me to start a tag for him, so i responded really sarcastically and told them i wouldnt. it turned out to be someone who was genuinely triggered by bob, and i felt like shit for responding the way i did lmao]) 

this is completely unimportant, but i want to share it anyway. my main drink order at Starbucks is a mocha. iced, hot, frappuccino, white chocolate, peppermint, dont care, as long as its a mocha. unless the psl is in season. then i get a psl.

thanks for paying a visit to my blog. stay fresh, stay classy, and stay alive.

i support - LGBTQ+ rights (this blog is a safe space, and will not tolerate any form of aphobia) - women’s rights/gender equality (this blog will not tolerate any sexism, towards men OR women, or any other gender identity) - racial equality (this blog will not tolerate any racism) - anarchism (fuck the government! its built on old white men with standards that were good for a country 200+ years ago! they’re racist! they’re homophobic! they’re sexist! get them the fuck out of there! replace the government! respect existence or expect resistance!)

i do not support - conservative republicans - Donald Trump specifically - feminazis/radical feminists - pedophilia/ddlg and any ships involving it - incest and any ships involving it - pro-ana/thinspo - exclusionists (those who think asexuals aren’t LGBTQ+ and don’t belong in LGBTQ+ spaces) - TERFs/SWERFs - forcing sexualities onto people (we all think Dan and Phil look cute together, ok? i like the idea of them being together too. just stop going out of your way to find every little detail that may suggest they’re together, and just,,, saying they’re boyfriends, leave them alone lmao)

bonus unlocked: music I listen to, shows/youtubers i watch, things you’ll see me reblog at times, etc - Twenty One Pilots - Panic! At The Disco - Gorillaz - Leathermouth - Pencey Prep - Death Spells - My Chemical Romance - Frank Iero andthe Patience - Fall Out Boy - I Don’t Know How But They Found Me - Falling In Reverse - Misfits - Nirvana - Vinyl Theatre - the Cancer Crew (Filthy Frank, iDubbbz, Maxmoefoe) - Pyrocynical - Dan and Phil - Splatoon - Night in the Woods - Overwatch - Bojack Horseman - Rick and Morty - Stranger Things - Steven Universe - The End Of The F***ing World

just warning you now; every time something new comes out for something im into (new episode of a TV show, new music video for a band, new video from a youtuber, etc), i’ll be reblogging things related to that thing for awhile. so, you may come across spoilers for some things. apologies. i’ll try to remember to tag it if it has major spoilers.

LINKS

band member tags (they all should be mobile friendly now!! fixed them all)

gerard - x ( tagged #!!.gee ) frank - x ( tagged #!!.frank ) ray - x ( tagged #!!.ray ) mikey - x ( tagged #!!.mikey ) (eat shit bob) bonus: frerard - x bonus: rikey - x

era tags (i did my best to make sure these are all mobile friendly)

bullets - x ( tagged #bullets ) revenge - x ( tagged #tcfsr ) black parade - x ( tagged #bp ) danger days - x ( tagged #dd ) hesitant alien - x ( tagged #aliens ) andthe patience - x ( tagged #patience )

lyrics tag

social media (this list is frequently updated, but if any of the links don’t work please let me know)

deviantart - KoditheInkling instagram - xokodi_ snapchat - koditheinkling (most active) youtube - MintyBlueNobody ifunny - JoeKeery (inactive) wattpad - fantastlc-bastards twitter - xokodi_  spotify - koditheinkling

gaming shit (no actual links here, just where you can find me)

switch FC -  SW-5080-0652-7342 switch IGN - SR • xokodi_ pocket camp ID - 0578 1253 280 pocket camp IGN - my dude discord - emo in 2018#1677

support me!!

buy me a coffee shop my redbubble

not an mcr fan? its chill, i got tags for other stuff too c:

gorillaz twenty one pilots i dont know how but they found me panic! at the disco black panther  love, simon rick and morty dan and phil

(more coming soon!!)

[sea-chief]

It boils down to this;

I asked politely for a blog to take down a post that gave me extreme anxiety (which I said in the ask) and it looked like that instead of even paying any attention to my request, they just straight up blocked me. And I posted it knowing that my followers aren’t people who harass others? If they did ever do that then fuck them, but from what I’ve seen, every person I’ve surrounded myself in discourse abhorres that kind of treatment. It was more of a ‘hey here’s this person who did something fucked up’ than ‘go harass this person into apologizing lmao’. I didn’t tag it as anything but that tag about the pro ana for a reason. And that was that I Didn’t Want It Discoursed. I don’t have a large following so I knew it wouldn’t get out of hand. And if it had, I would’ve fucking called out the people who were causing it.

And again, as soon as you want this over, or something, I’ll get rid of all these reblogs. Just to be clear.

OKAY SO

I asked them politely to reblog this because I didn’t want any discourse, and I was hoping they would understand, and I believe they blocked me.

Which is bullshit. I don’t care what side of the discourse a person is on, if a post that isn’t like ‘this OP is awful for this reason’, if a person comes to you saying ‘this post causes me anxiety for x reasons/gave me a panic attack’ or whatever then you should delete the post. Mental health is more important than discourse. I thought that was obvious